Shine Shine - I wish....

mm..
just realised that we left out 30 days for our preparation of custom wedding...
just realised im going to be addressed as Madam after 28 June 09..

no more "Miss" ya...
can't imaging 5 years later how we will look like...
growing older and older...
but no matter how i wish i can always be with dear...
for the rest of my life, i wish we are together...

later on we will have our own home...
later on we will have our babies...
later on we will plan to travel the world...

i have a lot of hopes...
is all about you and me...is about us...

and i always hope that we can share all these joy together with our best buddy...
who lost contact with us for more than 2 months...
we tried to sms, email but no reply...
wish he will be back soon...wish we can have dinner like the past...
wish we can cook the dishes together again...
wish he able to see our updated blog...wish he is safe and healthy now and forever...
:)

Our Big Big Day...

hot news hotest news...
update update...
Our wedding date is fixed ya...
as of 28 JUNE 2009...

Last two week was busy over dear's grandmum funeral...
we are sad about his grandmum passed away..
but still we dun hv choice but to hold our wedding within 100 days...
that is based on the chinese custom...

so re-schedule the timing and now we are pleased to announce that we are getting married soon in 28 JUNE 09...
is excited..but between there are a lot more work to do...
hope everything will be fine for us..
hope the wedding is what we are looking for...
hope every of our family members, relatives, friends will enjoy too...

Shine shine - 我们的爱

最近都在忙着婚纱照的事，当然deardear 也在为换工作的事伤脑经呀！！
deardear 都在问 shineshine 也问自己要的是什么...
最后，选了其中之一...
希望这是最好的吧！！

我总想 deardear 有些像谁...
终于，我想到了...
原来，我的 deardear 像我爸爸喔！！
deardear 最棒的是和爸爸一样会 proper planning...keke..

haha...小时候， 我总是想以后要找个像爸爸这样的好老公...
当然，爸爸也不是没有缺点...
而是，妈妈和爸爸互相包容呀！！
妈妈在21 岁就嫁给爸爸...
妈妈总说以前笨笨的就结婚， 还好爸爸不是坏人哦！ :)

那天，带妈妈去买早餐...
妈妈忽然问起 deardear 和 shine shine 在一起多久了...
我说我们在一起有两年多了吧！！
妈妈说如果当初没有去新加坡工作，也许就不会认识我的 deardear 喔！
也许， 也不会那么快就结婚...
妈妈说也许这就是 deardear 和我的缘分...
hahaa...

妈妈爸爸，我长大了！！
谢谢你们的爱护，关怀，宽容...
我总觉得我好幸福...拥有爱我的家人和爱我的 deardear...
现在，将要与 deardear 结婚喔...
以后也会有我们的小宝贝...
我会好好学习如何做个好 daugther, 好老婆， 好媳妇...
当然，deardear 也要学习喔！！
学习如何更爱我，更爱我们的家人...
更懂得表达我们的爱...

dear dear: job switch dilemma

have been bz since last few weeks, choosing wedding gown, taking wedding photos, choosing wedding photos, sister's birthday, pressure from work etc, yet the thing makes me most headache is the job switch.

y i wanna switch? the most common question ppl ask during interview, frankly speaking i feel disappointed with my company's decisions. i talked with my boss before, but nothing much he could help, he is just like me, a worker for this company. we had raised our opinions to management, but negative feedback was received.

i have been gone through 4 job interviews since last month, received 3 jobs offered and 1 rejected. i have to think from all angles to make the move, i think i am no longer young, it will be a turning and critical point for my life.

1. company A
it is a contracted position for 1 year and subject to extend.
high salary & working environment exactly the same with my current one

2. company B
a growing & small company, only 50 employees & more than 50% are ang mo.
a totally new post & experience for me as it is more like a project management post. have to catch up a lot to outperform there. plus, have to wear shirts and work at town area.

3. company C
a big mmc, they showed a great sincerity to approach me.
working environment, job scope slightly different from my current one, but feel no problem to fit in.

4. current company
my boss would like to promote me to a management level after completion of current project.
since i feel helpless in this company, it would be more helpless if i am in management post.

which should i choose?! today the dateline to make the deal...

王子与公主的梦...

好久都没有update blog ooh..
我们都忙着工作...
好开心的是我们完成了婚纱照喔...
当然，得谢谢“the white wedding” 的老板，老板娘和工作人员呀！！
把我们变成王子与公主哦... :)

好期待5 月看 album design ooh..

deardear 与 shineshine 都在一起努力实现我们的梦...
有时会担心这一切会像做梦，有一天醒来后一切会不见...
deardear 总说我想太多...

也许，这就是shine shine 吧！！

谢谢曾经让我伤心，心痛过的人...
因为有过这些曾经...
所以，我才更明白如何更爱我的 deardear...

Shine - moving on... :)

Last sat, we went for choosing gown ya…
Shine actually dun have any idea what kind of gown I prefer…
Maybe quite nervous over choosing gown…I couldn’t sleep well the night before…

Then dear also told shine that he couldn’t sleep well too…
Maybe two of us were too nervous ya…keke…

I’m sorry that shine did not choose the gown that dear chose ya…
But still shine choose one of the prettiest one (in red) ya…
Just hope that we able to have it on the day of taking photo oo…

Still have 7 months to go…before shine reli reli marry to dear…
There are a lot of things to be taken care by both of us…
Hope that we can be through all together…
I am lucky to have you taking care of shine

We must always add oil together ya…
No matters how, support each other…
No matters what, love each other ooh…

Shine - thought to share

having a lot of thought recently...
about myself...about my family...about deardear...
about the pass...about the future...

heard from mum, my neighbour - uncle and aunty were both died in car accident..
i remembered i saw them during the cny..i remembered we talked to each other that time...
i remembered they were very kind, good person...
yet they left...maybe they are in the heaven...
ppl who left might not able to feel the sadness..
ppl who stay...must live up your life and having courage to stay on...

'Each night, when i go to sleep, i die. And the next morning, when i wake up, i am reborn.' - from Mitch Albom

this sentence keeps on repeat..repeat..
i have to keep this sentence in mind..always remember to look into future...
i wish we are both sincere enough to each other from now on...
no more about past...
no more about who or what..
no more argue...

we have to live up our life...always always remember who we are...
who you are to me...
who i am to you...