Shine shine - 一起努力！！

昨夜，没睡好...
也许有点紧张今天的monthly check-up...
深夜里，听见superdaddy的打鼾声和感觉little jethro的练拳...
好幸福..好幸福...

检查时，医生说little jethro现在已有1.26kg oo...
看着他一直在动，好期待与little jethro见面喔！！
还有3个月，我们3个一起努力吧！！

Shine shine - Our Love

Is another check up today!!
As usual, superdear accompanies shine to do the check up...

after the quarrel last week, shine feels better this week...
at least we both have chance to speak out what is in our mind...

Just can say that we are too concern, too love each other...
then ends up with quarrel...maybe none of you understand this...
but sincerely...shine needs to tell dear,
no matter what, we should add oil together...and i love you more than anything in the world...

yup, dear decided to name our little junior as "Jethro"...little one, you hear that your superdaddy name you as Jethro!! It means "A gift from the God"...and you are the precious gift for both of us :)

gonna prepare dinner tonite...fried mee hoon oo...
:D

Shine shine - Mammy会好好保护你的

今天真把deardear，家人和自己给吓坏了。。。
凌晨的肚子痛让我从睡梦中惊醒。。
肚子痛让我不能好睡。。
只能坐在床上。。
好怕是little junior有问题。。

于是，一大早deardear把我带去做一次检查。。
都是我不好没好好听话，搬了重的东西才会这样啊！
医生要我好好休息，不能再搬重的东西。。
不然会更严重。。

总觉得自己对不起little junior和老公...
但是，工作需要也真的没办法喔。。
接下来我会更小心。。更小心的！！
不管怎样，little junior
mammy会好好保护你的。。

Shine Shine - Our Little Junior

刚刚又再看了“生日快乐”这部电影，是我和deardear 看的第一部电影。。
还是让我哭得很伤心。。

想想我和deardear从开始一路踏进了婚姻， 好多好多的回忆。。
想着我们的little junior 不晓得会像deardear 多些，还是像我呢？

对deardear 和我们的 little junior, 我好抱歉喔！！
最近都好累，工作忙，和好朋友又有问题。。
我想是时候放开了，不想再因为朋友的问题而影响到我们的生活和little junior。。

星期三，就要做monthly check up..好希望可以看到little junior 是girl girl 还是 boy boy oo...
little junior, u must work hard and grow up oo..
see u this Wednesday.. :)

Shine shine - Lucky

Day by day…I just realise how much you love and dote on me…
How lucky I am to meet you…
How lucky I am to know you…
How lucky I am to fall in love with you…
How lucky I am to be your wife…
Just like the song “lucky”…lucky to be been where I have been...

Since the day we received the Christmas gift, we are more and more happy…
Always laugh…you have made our life amazing…
Still remember the first day I met you…and never thought that we can be together…
And then we plan to step into marriage life, plan for the house…
Always admire the elder couple who hold hands and walk together…
Hope that 30 years later, we are still treating each other the same as now…

Today is the last day of 2009…
Tomorrow is the start of 2010…
Wish we both work harder together to get what we wanna to be…
:)

Shine Shine - False alarm

Last weekend, shine thought that I was having little ernest junior or little leejar junior due to late aunty visit…but I’m sorry to say it was just a false red alarm.

We were very busy and tired over work and meanwhile having to think, prepare for our sweet sweet home design…shine was quite stress and always having dreams at night, think this could be the reason of false alarm happen.

Deardear and mum, so sorry for the false alarm…shine always scare u two oo…

Shine would like to take this opportunity to thank our friend about your concern when we wanna to have our own little junior. Shine would say I like kid very much and hope to have our own little junior as well…but we shall let everything be nature oo…this will be the standard answer to every of our friend…we are seriously thinking to have, just let it be nature and if really really have, we shall announce to all of u.. :)

Tomorrow will be our 1st appointment with HDB for our flat oo..so excited!!
Have to thank to my superdear who came out with a great idea of how to design our sweet sweet home oo…appreciate your effort all the while and only now I just realize I have married to a super great man!! Just as what I have mentioned to dear, always be my superdear!! Can’t image after 20 years how we will look like, but shine hopes that we can still hold hand to hand to walk through all the day.

To me, everyday is a special day as long as dear is by my side with his love and care… :)

Shine shine - 幸福的我们

现在是早上9:40am ...
刚刚才睡醒的我还是不能说太多话！！

我们的婚礼已过了4 天了...
回想起当天的一切，我想在这儿向每个身边的人说声谢谢...
如果没有你们的参与，配合...
凭我和 deardear 的力量是不能完成的喔...

朋友一再的提醒我是为人妻了...
然后是为人妻应该要怎样和不能怎样...
hahaha...真把我给吓到呀...
不过，我会好好努力做 deardear 的为人妻

当天有好多突发状况我...
还好有我的 Super Deardear 和一班好姐妹的帮忙...
不然, 还真不敢想我们的婚礼能不能完成哦!!

shine shine 是个爱哭宝...
不管是爸爸妈妈一个小动作 (i.e. 为我上头纱, 一句要我好好照顾自己 etc), 我都会好想哭...
当 deardear 说出 "不用担心, 一切有 deardear 在; 你就开开心心做个美丽的新娘吧!"
这一切都让我超感动...眼泪就会不自觉地出现在眼里...
不停地提醒我...我会是幸福的...

我想我拥有300% 的幸福...
100% 来自我的两家人...
100% 来自我的 Super 老公...
100% 来自我的好姐妹...

不晓得这样的幸福会跟着我多久,
不管以后的日子是甜是苦,
相信我的 Super 老公都会带着我一步一步一起走...
:)

12 days to go ya....

12 days to go...

that is for our dream dream wedding ya...



recently we were just busy over the wedding preparation...

last sunday just went to try on the actual day wedding gown...

maybe dear dear having some experience in looking on what type of gown is more suitable for me...

this round...my super dear gave quite good recommendation ya....thz a lot to lao lao gong...



as these selected gown were for the actual day...

it actually took us more than 2 hours to just select 3 gowns...

haha...think bridal shop salesgirl was the most tired ya...

but anyway...have to thz to my buddy - yee who patiently wait for us ooo...



mami told me she was not mentally prepared for our wedding ya...

mum and daddy...i would to tell you...

i love both of u...and always do...

it will be no diff...and i will bring in deardear to love you two too...

:)

hope everything goes smooth for the wedding ya...

Our Big Big Day...

hot news hotest news...
update update...
Our wedding date is fixed ya...
as of 28 JUNE 2009...

Last two week was busy over dear's grandmum funeral...
we are sad about his grandmum passed away..
but still we dun hv choice but to hold our wedding within 100 days...
that is based on the chinese custom...

so re-schedule the timing and now we are pleased to announce that we are getting married soon in 28 JUNE 09...
is excited..but between there are a lot more work to do...
hope everything will be fine for us..
hope the wedding is what we are looking for...
hope every of our family members, relatives, friends will enjoy too...

Shine shine - 我们的爱

最近都在忙着婚纱照的事，当然deardear 也在为换工作的事伤脑经呀！！
deardear 都在问 shineshine 也问自己要的是什么...
最后，选了其中之一...
希望这是最好的吧！！

我总想 deardear 有些像谁...
终于，我想到了...
原来，我的 deardear 像我爸爸喔！！
deardear 最棒的是和爸爸一样会 proper planning...keke..

haha...小时候， 我总是想以后要找个像爸爸这样的好老公...
当然，爸爸也不是没有缺点...
而是，妈妈和爸爸互相包容呀！！
妈妈在21 岁就嫁给爸爸...
妈妈总说以前笨笨的就结婚， 还好爸爸不是坏人哦！ :)

那天，带妈妈去买早餐...
妈妈忽然问起 deardear 和 shine shine 在一起多久了...
我说我们在一起有两年多了吧！！
妈妈说如果当初没有去新加坡工作，也许就不会认识我的 deardear 喔！
也许， 也不会那么快就结婚...
妈妈说也许这就是 deardear 和我的缘分...
hahaa...

妈妈爸爸，我长大了！！
谢谢你们的爱护，关怀，宽容...
我总觉得我好幸福...拥有爱我的家人和爱我的 deardear...
现在，将要与 deardear 结婚喔...
以后也会有我们的小宝贝...
我会好好学习如何做个好 daugther, 好老婆， 好媳妇...
当然，deardear 也要学习喔！！
学习如何更爱我，更爱我们的家人...
更懂得表达我们的爱...

王子与公主的梦...

好久都没有update blog ooh..
我们都忙着工作...
好开心的是我们完成了婚纱照喔...
当然，得谢谢“the white wedding” 的老板，老板娘和工作人员呀！！
把我们变成王子与公主哦... :)

好期待5 月看 album design ooh..

deardear 与 shineshine 都在一起努力实现我们的梦...
有时会担心这一切会像做梦，有一天醒来后一切会不见...
deardear 总说我想太多...

也许，这就是shine shine 吧！！

谢谢曾经让我伤心，心痛过的人...
因为有过这些曾经...
所以，我才更明白如何更爱我的 deardear...

Valentine's Gift

we bought casio watch for each other as a Valentine's Gift for this year : even though they r not bery high end, we both like it bery much :)


CASIO EDIFICE EFA-116D-1A1V
found quite special as its analog moves every 20 seconds & auto electro-luminescent backlight for certain angles.


CASIO SHEEN SHN-3006SP-7A
shine likes its shell background in the milky way face & crystal edge, looks elegant :) we found there is a special function for this watch after we bought it, it can show the current moon phase!!! LOL... even though it is not value added function as we dun 拜拜 based on watch reminder :P


actually we r not watch collectors, but both have quite a number of watches since secondary school, and even think of to buy a watch case to store, any1 knows where to find the watch case?

Shine shine - 没有我你闷不闷

看了一遍散文，觉得好像我和deardear..

'没有我你闷不闷' - 张小娴

如果没有我，以后再没有人问你：“你去了哪里？” 也许你会觉得闷。
再没有人唠叨你，你会不习惯的。
再没有人向你发脾气，你会觉得生活太平淡。
再没有人向你撒娇，你可能会觉得欠缺了一些什么。
再没有人在你面前哭，你会觉得自己不重要。
再没有人跳到你身上说：“吻我！”你会失去活力。
再没有人跳到你身上说：“抱抱我！”你会不习惯。
再没有人问你：“你会不会跟我结婚？”你会觉得生活太正常。
再没有人跟你争浴室，你会不够痛快。
再没有人要你记着她的生日，你会觉得浪费了你良好的记忆力。
再没有人吩咐你：“下班后来接我。”以后每天下班，你会不知道可以去那里。
再没有人要你听她说心事，你会有点失落。
再没有人在家里等你，你会觉得家像酒店。

没有我你闷不闷？一定会闷坏你。所以，你要对我好一点。

以上所写的，都觉得是在说我和deardear。。
很想对你。。

有了你，我的日子变得很有意义。。
有了你，我可以唠叨你的坏习惯。。让你更稳重。
有了你，我可以把我的不满都对你说。。然后，你会逗我开心。。
有了你，我可以向你撒娇。。让我觉得我是世上最幸福的人。。
有了你，我可以期待下班后可以看见你而让我更努力。。
有了你，我可以在家等你。。这种等待的感觉是幸福的。。

不晓得你是否也是感觉幸福的，
谢谢你给的幸福。。我会好好珍惜的。。 :)

ROM @ 14 Sep 08

dear dear says,

after trial honeymoon at hoh chi minh, i signed on certificate of register of marriage on 14 sep. i always think tat i wont marry until age 30, but i am one of the earliest groom among our classmates. recieving lots of greetings from frens, but most of them feel shock and surprised tat i am going to marry. some bloody buddies even asked whether it is a shortgun marriage. fcuk...

most of my frens havent seen my bride, here is the chance, get prepare ur handkerchief in case ur saliva drops. da da.....

shine shine says,

in fact the day before our ROM, shine was bery bz over discussing how to do the hairstyle and make up...i have to say thank you to yee yee as she had accompanied me the whole day just for preparation..

i have waken up about 2 to 3 times in the midnight...as the whole night i was in dreaming..i was not sure what in my dream but keep on thinking of dear dear...

thank you for bear and nicole who bring us the chance to get to know each other and start our love story..

thank you for so much of love that you have given to me...one of my fre asked me if we are too fast to get marry..mmm, my answer is that we love each other and therefore we are planning for our future..

from now onwards, you are my 老公喔 and shine is your 老婆呀... ;p

Register of Marriage 14 Sep

since when i got a gal gal's heart, i am getting nervous when my rom is approaching. omg, i cant do anything well, i cant sleep well, i cant eat well, i cant think well.

y do i so scared of marriage? coz she is not the one?! coz i cant give commitment?! coz we are too young? coz i am not ready?!

NOOOOOOOooooooo......... it is all becoz i am getting fat. :S i was even mocked by my company security guard tat my belly is like a ball recently.. ZzzzZzzzz....

ever since i know shine shine, my weight increases exponentially, yet shine shine just gets slimmer and slimmer..

OMG... i wanna be a slim and handsome bridegroom.

still have 1 month to go, 5kg is the my target. should not be a big problem since i am born with best genes. mwuhahaha....

copy from my fren wedding

dear dear: Happy Birthday, Shine Shine Lao Po

17 july my lao po shine shine birthday, just had a news tat she is going back from india tonite. ho ho ho.... but only manage to c her tomolo nite as she will reach at sg tomolo early in the morning whereas i was on the way to work :)

prepared a special gift for her :P hope she will like it :) hmm... sure she got lots of story to share about her clients, cant wait to hear...

Shine shine - I'm just tired...

Went to aunty funeral last weekend, saw her laying and everyone was praying her..
this remind me of grandmum's death few years ago...
frankly speaking everyone expect of this day to come as she was having cancer...

i really duno what to say at that time..looking at my parent...they are getting old while most of the time i was only busy over the work and fre...mayb i should spend more time with them in future..i.e. to accompany them shopping, to have a short trip with them...and many many...not just buying thing to them bah...

was planning to have a short trip with deardear...both of us taking leave in 2 of may yet until now we have not yet really plan on it...mayb i was to busy over the whole April and leaving all alone for deardear...just now we just blamed each other on this matter...

i dun mind to go anywhere...cos it should be a happy trip ...end up we both unhappy over planning this trip..sometimes...i should say we both wrong...as i should not say i dun wanna go beach...but really scare of the strong sunshine...but duno when dear said starting to plan up where to go....until this week....nothing coming out...

few weeks ago...u are bz over the xiao ke ai...then bz over the loan agreement...while im bz over the work...

haizzzz...mayb really too late to say who is right or who is wrong...cos it really doesn't matter already...

so if anyone was planning to go anywhere or having trip...is better to plan early early ooo....dun end up like us ya..

our 1st time...going kl by train ooo...

It has been one week...whole week i dun really have time to look at the updated blog from my deardear...feel sooo sorry for him as i was too busy over the work ya...

well...how to say...im glad to be one of team for current job as i reli got to learn a lot from everyone..im glad to have a deardear who love me so much and always caring me a lot, patient enough to talk to me and wait for me all the while...

keep it short..my whole week...except for the work...shine just felt sleepy...haha...

my 1st time went to kl by train at late nite on friday with deardear...it's fun enough but i could not get enough sleep as i was worry that v might over sleep ya..the whole nite, i woke up about three times to check where we are ooo..

mm...shine need to climb up to the upper level while deardear slept at the lower level...actually quite enjoy and excited as early in the morning...we will able to get to see our "xiao ke ai" oo...which is the car dear bought from anderson...

frankly speaking...shine dun really know lot about the car...or even modify car..but the 1st time, seeing the "xiao ke ai"...shine like it...haha...

we reach kl sentral about 6:30am...walking around at the kl sentral...seem nothing had been changed except for myself...had been working about 3 years...it really a long time for me ya...even just started the new job but i still prefer to study rather than working oo...haha...

about 7:30am...met up with anderson and see our "xiao ke ai"...we both excited to see it...mmm...forgot to bring along my camera...or i will help deardear to take picture in front of the kl sentral with xiao ke ai ooo....

too bad we din really got chance to shop around at kl ooo....as shine is needed to back for work... :( and yet now my director told me she can manage herself with the work....
so i can do smth on tml except for work lol..

Dear driving all the way bck from kl to jb...mmm...this xiao ke ai...very different from xiao ying oo....shine was thinking how to help dear to decorate all the thing ooo...but not too gal gal style...or xiao ke ai will become shineshine's xiao ke ai liao...hehe...

dear....last nite...shine really a bit scare to sleep alone with you accompany...even u are near to me...but still scare oo...

u know...i felt sweet after reading the email that you forwarded to me...
we must work hard together oo...taking good care of xiao ke ai n xiao ying...and plan for our future...
;p

Shine shine - day to day..i love u more

have read through what dear wrote on the blog...
mm....what to say ya....
shine also duno...but it is really true for us that seem hard for us to saving...as most of the time, we really cant stop thing happen which beyond our control...

shine also spend quite a lot recently...due to mami's health condition seem not getting weak after start taking care of the little baby xiao guan you...just pray that mami will get better after eating the calcium pill ya...hope that really helps her ooo...actually mami's health condition is not really good since long time yet maybe due to the tiring of looking after baby then it result mami getting weak ya...
mm...nvm...just pray for mami and xiao guan you will get healthy ya...haha...

dear...shine cant stop to having shopping and therefore shopping can't cancel from the list oo...
that is the only One thing that shine can relax and release my stress neeehh...

mm...secondly,Movie...at least once a month...is that okay?and we try not to watch it at sg...back to jb to watch bah...is that good idea?hehe...

third..regarding the investment...what shine suggest will be...we can do a little little 1st ya...that can let us test test the water 1st...do u agree ya??

shine know what you wanna which is what i wanna...we are having the same goal....
1st may saving for the wedding bah...
2nd may be getting to invest oo...
3rd..we just talk abt baby later after marry...since both of us trying hard to grow up our income oo...shine dun really know what we can do to increase our income yet shine only will take consideration on the risk that we may need to take oo...

maybe due to the nature of the work i am doing now...and the risk is always always come first before talking about after...shine shine also very scare here n there...that is the way of little woman ya...anything...dear can make the decision for shine...shine is not independent at all that dear know about that oo....right?

we really really work hard hard together to achieve our dream n goal together oo...
shine love you so much oo...
:)

cheer up for the day...cheer up...we must live with hope and everyday shine is having hope and dream before starting a day work yooo...

shine shine - workhard together ooo

Since the first day, deardear create this blog...shine shine dun reli have the chance to look into it in details...as shine was busy over the current job...just finish the left over work and shine able to talk to the CFO with all the figure ya...so good luck to shine ooo...hope not getting scolded for nothing yoo...

Have been worked with this current employer about one month plus..and i feel that i really still have quite lot of thing to learn up from them...so shine shine must add oil on it yoo..but will really need to say sorry to my dearest dear...as even i back to home early i will still need to touch up the work...dun really have the time to talk to him...and every nite, dear was the one need to wait shine for dinner...

Actually the other day...when shine got to see the news about there was some problem for the flight from HK to LA...shine really spend the whole day...think about if i should tell deardear or not...shine feel that sometimes i am really selfish in the sense that dear is only for shine...yet i cant really keep...as just feel that i should at least tell dear about this matter...

Shine really duno if im doing the right thing or not ya...but becos of love u...shine will share every little thing to dear...shine shine must believe in dear...hope what i have done is correct to myself and dear...;p

A bit worry on dear's xiao ke ai - savvy ooo...mayb sometimes shine really think too much...that is what normally auditor does...hope we able to get the car at least by next week oo..im looking forward the trip to kl with dear to bring xiao ke ai back ya..hehe...

mm...got to prepare deardear's breakfast ya...simple with the bread and kaya + cheese..
hope dear will like it...as it fill up a lot of shine hardwork and love oo...

let us work hard together...shine know that dear also having a busy day...call up meeting...solving problem ya...tml shine will try and try to get bck early to really talk to you more...keke...